Im on a Lan with another computer and i have a ADSL 2048 Proxy Router, i cannot host,if i host people cannot see my server
Never heard of that router before, but you may have to set the port forwarding options to point to your host machine, or even put it in the DMZ if it has that option.
I have a small LAN at home. I use DSL and a Router/Hub to share the connection.
When hosting, you have to make sure to disable any hardware firewall your router may have. If you have Windows XP or software firewall running on your PC make sure to disable that as well. You must also forward Flashpoint's port (2234 by default) to your local IP. That can be done through your router. I've never heard of your model, but it should let you administer these features, read your manual.
Ok ill try that,
its a Zyxel Proxy router