Thanks for all the replys. Its reassuring to know that theirs other people with the same views.
There is a middle point indeed, although its hard to get it on center without experimenting in the air which is stupid, and I found that I gradually lost speed and airbreaks deployed.
Personally I would like my joystick throttle to controll thrust from 0-100%, and if i want airbreaks to just press the backward key, im sure many will agree this is a more sensible way of controlling the plane.
BIS, I hope you will fix the A10'S thrust in the next patch!